Hi There

I have really missed my Blogging Girls! How is everyone? Theres been so much going on the last 6-7mths that I had to put Blogging on the back-burner. I had BIG plans to do a Diary of our life and what we have and are dealing with, but again it just wasn't in the cards.

Everything is going well! Wesley is tolerating treatment and we have figured out how to have a ~normal~ life again. One that includes trips to the hospital every 2mths, blood work weekly, chemo monthly and the unknown of it all.

Isn't it funny how the powers above take over and you learn how to cope and deal with what life gives you. The good, the bad and the ugly, but also the beautiful. I wont sit here at this point and say my attitude is always positive and roses have an all new scent, because that's b.s.

In the beginning I thought that writing about it and documenting every little thing would help. Well I soon realized I didn't need to document anything, because I will never forget on any level. With that being said I also realized I just wanted to live and sometimes forget. Just be normal, have fun, go on vacation, go to graduation of my sons and pretend we were ok. As crazy as it seems that's how Ive learned to cope. Don't get me wrong....I by no means am in denial......just surviving!

In this survival mode things have mostly been good! I believe the survival mode is also the positive mode! Its all good is my saying! Its all good till it isn't! Then you go on, but you cant dwell on the negative! In doing this our boys are good, my husband is doing awesome and I'm holding strong! Just got my passport renewed and looking forward to going out of the country, hoping to one day spend alot of time just chilling!!

So, as you can see I plan on having many Margaritas on the Beach with my husband and yes sometimes alone!! We\Im going to be ok! Now enough of all this serious talk I want some fun conversation! Some Summer Plans, something fun going on I may not have heard of (;

Besafe ..........have fun!!!

~ WTH ~

1) People who Dress-up JUST to go to the Grocery Store???!!! WTH
2) People who treat their pets better than their kids???!!! WTH
3) Peple who call or text you and you reply and they dont answer??!!! WTH

4) Why we ALL cant be perfect??!! WTH
5) Why it cant stay Summer ALL year around??!! WTH
6) Why Plastic Surgery isn't FREE after 50??!!! Insurance Companies should want us to look young, so we will still feel a false sense of security to pay those hellacious premiums???!!! WTH

7) When did it become socially acceptable to pretend to be something your NOT???!!! WTH
8) When did 60 start to seem sooooo young???!!! WTH
9) When did LIFE in general become so complicated??!!! WTH

10)  How did Blogging become easier than actually communicating??!!! WTH
11)  How did Reality Shows become so popular......do we REALLY think its reality???!!! WTH
12)  How is it possible to love Chocolate sooo much???!!! WTH

13)WTH is wrong with kids these days and why did/do we feel the NEED to spoil them so much???!!! AND when did they get smarter than us lol!!!
14)WTH happened to Obama Promises?? !!! (NO, I didn't vote for him and Im still wondering what ~change~ people voted for?!))
15)WTH is wrong with this Blog??!!! (=


No, Im not being negative just having a WTH day! Im sure tomorrow will be a ~Im so grateful~ day lol
It IS Monday, so what is your WTH Monday revelation??!!

~WTH Monday~,Tues will be ~Thoughtful Tuesday~ and how about ~What-ever~ Wednesday and then ~Thankful Thursday, ~ Freakin' Friday~, ~Social Saturday~, Finally ~Sacred Sunday~ Ta Daaaaa

AWWWW THANX SHELIA AKA OPTO-MOM! NICE TO KNOW I HAVENT BEEN FORGOTTEN!! I WILL SEND OUT SOME AWARDS TOO AS SOON AS I CATCH UP! IVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 3MTHS IN DALLAS AND AM NOW HOME AND BACK TO BLOGGIN!!! IM BAAAACCCCKKKKKKK (=

Thank you Mitzi @ ~Southern Style~! So sweet of you and a nice welcoming from a month off!

So, I'm suppose to award this to 10 other people and tell you 10 things I love...................

Ten things I love:

1) I have to say I love my family 1st or Ill be shunned!

2) Of course my God always without him life would be really hard at times!

3)I love the feel of sand between my toes;

4)the sound of the ocean waves;

5)the sun on my face and the wind in my hair;

6)the smell of an Ocean breeze

7)A realllyyyy good Margarita (-;

8)Sex and The City...yes I'm a fan!

9)To Blog

10)The smell of fresh flowers, my favorite is a Magnolia Tree...nothing better!

I will have to go back and add the 10 Bloggers.....its not an easy task! I still haven't figured out how to add them, so that they can just be clicked on and you can go directly to their site!

SO MUCH PRESSURE LOL THANX AGAIN I APPRECIATE EVERYONE WHO VISITS AND OF COURSE THE AWARDS ARE A BONUS....VERY SWEET (-;